Earning Money

Cullen vacuuming the back.

Jackson's been working through a Brain Quest 1st Grade workbook this summer.  I didn't want him to completely forget everything he was taught at school.  There's a Time and Money section of the book which he adds pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters.

Upon completing the section, Jackson asked me if he could have some money.  To which I replied, "Money is not given.  It's earned."

"How do you earn money?"

"You have to work for it.  You do a job and earn money."

"Can I get a job to earn money?  How can I earn it?"

So I thought about it for a minute.  I don't want to pay him to complete chores around the house.  Chores are part of living in our house.  No one gets paid to clean their own toilet or pick up their rooms.  It's expected, therefore I don't feel it necessary to pay him for it.

I finally thought of something I would feel comfortable paying him for, "You can clean my car."

"How much will I earn?" my savy negotiator asked.

"50 cents."

"Cool!"

My reasoning behind picking my car is this 1) It's my car.  Technically, it's my responsibility to keep it clean.  2) Jackson and his brothers are the main reason it's dirty.  And 3)  It's not too complicated but is work nonetheless.

The next morning, Jackson set out to clean my car.  He picked up all the trash, find objects I didn't even know were in there, dusted it, coated it in Armor All (as good as a 6 year old can), and vacuumed the floors and mats.  Cullen helped with the trash removal and vacuuming to earn 25 cents.  Of course, I supervised and made him redo things he didn't do correctly the first time while saying, "If you're going to do something, do it right the first time."

Now Jackson is excited because he earned 50 cents and has the opportunity to earn another 50 cents by cleaning Andrew's car.

I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing, but I'm hoping these small lessons will go a long way in the future.

She told her brother, "NO!"

You know those moments as a parent that as soon as it happens you think, "I'm going to remember that forever."  Maybe it's because the kids to something cute, funny, or tried to kill themselves and you're stomach dropped to your feet as you prevented it.

I had one of those moments this morning.

I was unloading the kids from the car to bring Cullen and Sawyer into preschool.  I unloaded Cassidy first since she's right behind, then proceeded around the car to let the two in the back out.  I put Cassidy down while I was fighting with the seats and unbuckling Sawyer.  Cassidy decided to be a typical 16 month old and run into the parking lot.

Of all the parking lots Cassidy could run into, the preschool lot is by far the best choice.  You have parents of young children driving around who are more vigilant than normal.  Plus when I drop off the kids, the parking lot is fairly empty.

Off she goes running and laughing, I asked Jackson to go get her and bring her back to the car.  He did and was holding her hand so she didn't run off again.  As I'm helping Sawyer put his backpack on, I see Cassidy fighting to get her arm free of Jackson's grip.  Then it happened.

"NO!" she screamed at him.  And the look on her face was priceless.  She was frowning and fuming at the same time because she wasn't getting her way.

"She just said no," was my ingenious reply.  Which was confirmed by Jackson trying who them proceeded to try to get her to say it again.

I just started laughing!

I knew I would never forget that moment for two very important reasons.

1)  Cassidy said no and knew exactly what she was saying and doing.

2)  I know that face she made.  I know it down to my bones because it had me written all over it.  The frown, the unhappiness, the pissed off look she gave her brother.  I patented that looks as a child and improved and perfected that look as an adult.  Oh Lord!  She might have my personality.  That'll be interesting come later on in life.

Seems Miss Cassidy is developing her independent personality.  And being pushed around by her brothers is not what she is all about.

Blog Neglect and a Crazy Summer

I've completely been neglecting my blog.  My only excuse is how busy I have been lately.  I'm not talking about 'Oh, it's summer and I want to spend every waking moment at the pool' crazy.  I have a special kind of crazy.

It's call the summer from hell crazy.  And it's not even the fun kind.

June was the worst.  Jackson got sick, then Cassidy got sick.  Cullen and Sawyer both came down with ear infections.  And Cassidy then graced us with pink eye.

Then I got sick.  On Father's Day, I woke up with my throat on fire.  I can't even explain had bad I felt about being sick on Father's Day.  It didn't get any better for the rest of the week.  Two days later, I woke up with pink.  I can't even tell you how long it's been since I've had pink eye.  I had to have been in elementary school.  I looked like Darth Maul for 3 days sans the makeup.  I felt as though my eyes were constantly being scraped with sand paper.  On top of that, I had to bleach my entire house while sick.  I had to go to the urgent care clinic to get antibiotic drops.  The Dr. then saw my throat and all the crap that came out of it decided to put me on oral antibiotics too.  He said I had an upper respiratory infection and a good possibility of having strep throat as well.  I was loaded up on pharmaceutical meds and OTC meds.

The sickness knocked me down for almost two weeks.  Andrew and my mom were life savers with helping pick up the slack with the kids.  I still had to take them to swim lessons and Tae Kwon Do, but my mom was nice enough to take Jackson to Vacation Bible School.

Since June is finally over, I was looking forward to July calming down.  That didn't happen.  July is just as busy, minus the illnesses.

Jackson is finishing up swim lessons tomorrow.  Cullen and Sawyer are at preschool until the end of the month, and Cassidy is being taken everywhere her brothers go.  Tae Kwon Do lessons are still in full swing.  The boys are earning their stripes on their white belts.  Sawyer really wants to join a class, but he's still too young.  He patiently sits and waits very closely watching his brothers' classes.  He even practices at home with them.  It's quite cute!

It's crazy to think it is mid July.  I was hoping summer would be fun with no school schedules, but I swear I've been busier now than when school is going.

And on a side note, I've launched my photography website at Emily Ingalls Photography.  I have a Facebook Page too!  Give me a Like if you get a chance!  I feel so official and professional.  I'll keep you updated on what my plan is.  It's still a work in progress, but I'm just happy I'm making progress!

To a little slower summer and no one else becoming sick!